Showing posts with label Aging. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Aging. Show all posts

Monday

THE PATH – THE JOURNEY

[Photo Source: Sunrise -- my camera, my neighborhood 2011]

(19 DEC 2011 – As my Journey's End hovers ever closer on the horizon, I look at each NEW DAY as a gift that is mine to hold until Day's END. dht) 




Life happens as the Sun makes its Journey across our Path.

The Sunrise Promises HOPE and a New Beginning.

The Sunset Promises Peace and a Quiet Slumber.

Somewhere in between, the Dreams of youth blend with the experience of our Reality.

Then in a wink of Time, our Life is past, the Journey done, forever we rest in peace.

[Dorothy Hazel Tarr – 2011]


[Photo Source: Sunset -- my camera, my neighborhood 2011]


Thursday

The Scene in the Window

                          [Photo Source: Google online images]


(1 DEC 2011 – A song without sound – a song without music. A song is sung, but the melody is mute.  dht)



CHORUS:
    Another year passes and
   the scene in the Window changes.


A Knee is bent and a Ring accepted.

A Veil is lifted and a wedding Kiss is shared.

A Child is born and lies in its Crib.

A Gavel is struck and a Marriage is severed.

A Web appears and Youth's image is lost.

A Tear falls and a Timeless River flows.

A Pen in hand and a Life's Story is written.

A prayer of dust-to-dust and a Journey ends.

[Dorothy Hazel Tarr – 2011] 

                           [Photo Source: Google online images]

Saturday

THE WHEEL OF LIFE -- of TIME

                              [Photo Source : Google online images]


(5 NOV 2011 --  I've been betrayed so many Times in my Life – now it seems the "norm" for any relationship I'm in.  So, I withdraw from any contact  --  to avoid any further suffering, falsehood, and betrayal. Even while the Wheels of Time turn, I exist in the shallows and shadows behind protective masks. Even the Mirror does NOT see the depth in me.    dht)



The Wheel of Life turns –
as I hover in the shadows –
ever wading through the shoals of Time.

Another turn of the Wheel –
an essence changed –
as Time and Age blends the patterns.

How shallow the sigh –
How deep the wounds –
How superficial the mind –
How deep the emotion.

The blush of the bloom – faded –
The vessel of the bouquet – weighted –
The trivial confounds the profound –
The thoughtful masks the perception.

Another Turn of the Wheel –
Another Step on the path –
Another Year on the rung –
Another Tear on the lash.

[Dorothy Hazel Tarr – 2011]

Wednesday

LIFE and LOVE

                           [PHOTO SOURCE - GOOGLE online images]

(27 APR 2011  --To me LOVE is unconditional -- accepting everything about another  - both what is in their Heart and what is not;  LOVE is Timeless – crossing boundaries of age and decades; and LOVE is infinite – deeper than any ocean -- its depth reaching to the core of one's Heart.  

I found the short story below on the Internet and it touched my heart and made me tear up.  If it touches your Heart, share it with someone you care about – a nurse, doctor, caregiver, mother, father, sibling, or friend.  dht-2011)


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I Still Know Who She Is

It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly gentleman in his 80's arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.  He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00.

The Nurse took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.  The Nurse saw him looking at his watch and, since the Nurse was not busy with another patient, decided to evaluate his wound.  On examining it, the Nurse saw it was well healed and talked to one of the other Nurses and got the needed supplies to remove the sutures and redress the wound.

While taking care of the wound, the Nurse asked the elderly gentleman if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, since he was in such a hurry.  The gentleman said, no, that he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.  The Nurse inquired as to her health and the gentleman told him that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's disease.  As they talked, the Nurse asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.  The gentleman replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him for five years now.

The Nurse was surprised and asked him, 'And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?'  The elderly gentlemen smiled as he patted the Nurse's hand and said, 'She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is.'  The Nurse had to hold back tears, and had goose bumps, and thought, 'That is the kind of love I want in my life'.
[-Author Unknown]

Saturday

THE CHANGING SEASONS

















(Photo Source: Google online images)


(9 Apr 2011 – Where is it written that Time moves slowly in times of Trouble and quickly in times of Joy?  Who is the record keeper of Times Passage?  My mirror holds many stories and many secrets.  dht)



The changing seasons mark the passage of time on NATURE's Landscape,
even as the lines on my cheeks mark the hourglass of my life's journey.
[Dorothy Hazel Tarr]

           (Photo Source: Google online images)

Thursday

NATURE'S HOURGLASS

[PHOTO SOURCE: National Geographic online images]
(Weathered clothes pins on clothes line in an outdoor setting)
 

Our middle years are the best of times and proffer a chance to take 'stock' of where we have been and where we want to go. Down the road of tomorrow, the ravages of age will line the face and make us frail. However, these are but layers of time cocooning the child that lives in happy wonderment of making it to another birthday. [~Dorothy Hazel Tarr-2011]

Each year is a special gift that you can hold and put into your Heart's Treasure Chest nestled with all the treasures and memories of yesterday. [~Dorothy Hazel Tarr-2011]

Below are some quotes that touch a special place in my mind and heart. (dht) 

Old Time, that greatest and longest established spinner of all!.... his factory is a secret place, his work is noiseless, and his hands are mutes. [~Charles Dickens]

A person is always startled when he hears himself seriously called an old man for the first time. [~Oliver W. Holmes, Sr.]

You are only young once, but you can stay immature indefinitely. [~Ogden Nash]

They say that age is all in your mind. The trick is keeping it from creeping down into your body. [~Author Unknown]

The other day a man asked me what I thought was the best time of life. "Why," I answered without a thought, "now." [~David Grayson]

Do not regret growing older. It is a privilege denied to many. [~Author Unknown]

Father Time is not always a hard parent, and, though he tarries for none of his children, often lays his hand lightly upon those who have used him well; making them old men and women inexorably enough, but leaving their hearts and spirits young and in full vigour. With such people, the grey head is but the impression of the old fellow's hand in giving them his blessing, and every wrinkle but a notch in the quiet calendar of a well-spent life. [~Charles Dickens]

Wrinkles should merely indicate where smiles have been. [~Mark Twain]

It's important to have a twinkle in your wrinkle. [Author Unknown]

Years may wrinkle the skin, but to give up enthusiasm wrinkles the soul. [~Samuel Ullman]

There is always a lot to be thankful for, if you take the time to look. For example, I'm sitting here thinking how nice it is that wrinkles don't hurt. [~Author Unknown]

Middle age is when your age starts to show around your middle. [~Bob Hope]

The years teach much which the days never knew. [~Ralph Waldo Emerson]

In youth the days are short and the years are long; in old age the years are short and the days long. [~Nikita Ivanovich Panin]

A man's age is something impressive, it sums up his life: maturity reached slowly and against many obstacles, illnesses cured, griefs and despairs overcome, and unconscious risks taken; maturity formed through so many desires, hopes, regrets, forgotten things, loves. A man's age represents a fine cargo of experiences and memories. [~Antoine de Saint-Exupéry]

A man is not old until regrets take the place of dreams. [~John Barrymore]

Thirty-five is when you finally get your head together and your body starts falling apart. [~Caryn Leschen]

Forty is the old age of youth; fifty the youth of old age. [~Victor Hugo]

Years ago, we discovered the exact point, the dead center of middle age. It occurs when you are too young to take up golf and too old to rush to the net. [~Franklin Adams]

Everyone is the age of their heart. [~Guatemalan Proverb]

Youth is a disease from which we all recover. [~Dorothy Fulheim]

There was no respect for youth when I was young, and now that I am old, there is no respect for age - I missed it coming and going. [~J.B. Priestly]

I still have a full deck; I just shuffle slower now. [~Author Unknown]

To be seventy years young is sometimes far more cheerful and hopeful than to be forty years old. [~Oliver Wendell Holmes]

Age is a high price to pay for maturity. [~Tom Stoppard]

The key to successful aging is to pay as little attention to it as possible. [~Judith Regan]

The first half of life consists of the capacity to enjoy without the chance; the last half consists of the chance without the capacity. [~Mark Twain]

The great secret that all old people share is that you really haven't changed in seventy or eighty years. Your body changes, but you don't change at all. And that, of course, causes great confusion. [~Doris Lessing]

There is still no cure for the common birthday. [~John Glenn]

Some people, no matter how old they get, never lose their beauty - they merely move it from their faces into their hearts. [~Martin Buxbaum]

You can't hide your true colours as you approach the autumn of your life. [~Author Unknown]

I don't believe one grows older. I think that what happens early on in life is that at a certain age one stands still and stagnates. [~T.S. Eliot]

Whatever poet, orator, or sage may say of it, old age is still old age. [~Henry Wadsworth Longfellow]



Saturday

Another Day, Another Nature

                   [Photo Source: National Geographic online images]

[This PHOTO illustrates to ME by its imagery, that ALTHOUGH I may look different on the outside while among you, IF YOU LOOK CLOSELY, you will see how much we are the same—IF YOU TAKE THE 'TIME' TO LOOK CLOSELY!  dht]


(26 Feb 2011 – TODAY was a life-changing day for me.  So I am posting these sayings that seem to 'fit' my new perspective with a photo that pairs with the 'new'!  MY FAV saying and the one that most 'fits' me today is the last quote by Donald Miller!  dht)


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(My grandmother used to say “If you can't change something, change the way you think about it."  [-Maya Angelou] )

 GRAMs always 'know' best!  Dorothy Hazel Tarr]

“Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending.”  [-Maria Robinson]

 “Even though we've changed and we're all finding our own place in the world, we all know that when the tears fall or the smile spreads across our face, we'll come to each other because no matter where this crazy world takes us, nothing will ever change so much to the point where we're not all still friends.”  [-unknown]

“The doors we open and close each day decide the lives we live.”  [-Flora Whittemore]

 “Sometimes it's the smallest decisions that can change your life forever.”  [-Keri Russell]

 “What you leave behind is not what is engraved in stone monuments, but what is woven into the lives of others.”  [-Pericles]

 “There is nothing wrong with change, if it is in the right direction.”
[-Winston Churchill] {Sir Winston Leonard Spencer -Churchill, KG, OM, CH, TD, PC, DL, FRS (30 Nov 1874 – 24 Jan 1965) was a British politician and statesman} (my Cousin, THAT's right!)

 “Life can either be accepted or changed.  If it is not accepted, it must be changed.  If it cannot be changed, then it must be accepted.”  [-unknown]

 “You've changed so much.  I guess that's what happens.  I wish you knew how much you changed me.  I wonder if I changed you, if your life is different because of me.  Because mine's different."  [-unknown]

 “God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.”  [-Reinhold Niebuhr]

“Change is the essence of life.  Be willing to surrender what you are for what you could become.”  [-unknown]

 “Everything in life is connected somehow.  You may have to dig deep to find it but it's there.  Everything is the same even though it's different.  Somehow, everything connects back with your life.  The faces in certain places may be different, but the situation is the same.  Irony is a hidden factor that creeps around us in life, letting its presence felt only after it has left.  Picture back to a year ago and the situations you were in.  Look at how things are different yet somehow everything is still in some way cognate [alike].  Everything connects together to form the balance of life, to maintain structure.  Change is and always will be inevitable, but everything is relative, and all the moments and times in your life will come back around again, you just might find yourself on the other side of the coin.  Things are always changing, as fast as everything stays the same.”  [-unknown]

“Do not brood over your past mistakes and failures as this will only fill your mind with grief, regret, and depression.  Do not repeat them in the future.”  [-Swami Sivananda]

 “Life is change.  Growth is optional.  Choose wisely.”  [-unknown]

 “We are not the same persons this year as last; nor are those we love.  It is a happy chance if we, changing, continue to love a changed person.”  [-William Somerset Maugham]

 “It is always the simple things that change our lives.  And these things never happen when you are looking for them to happen.  Life will reveal answers at the pace life wishes to do so.  You feel like running, but life is on a stroll.  This is how God does things.”  [-Donald Miller]

  
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Sunday

DAY's VENUE














 [PHOTO SOURCE: National Geographic online images]
 
(20 Feb 2011, Sunday --  Just a few words to go with this PIX.  It is astonishing how a few short phrases pierce the gray of your world with a single beam of light. dht)

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WHERE goes the day
Down yester night's passage.

How blind today's privilege
Lost fast in yesterday's grasp.

Tomorrow's dream a pledge
Whence nature's precedence assures.

Breast expanse upon deep breath
While shallow essence sums life's interval.

What key holds true for grantor's trust
Whilst surety and worth stand anon.

Time bespoke metered sameness
Whose vowel foretold spoiled fortune.

Ribbons linger as fragments
Where once whole, a heart full.

Shattered spectrum of hopes
Cast away on ocean's tears.

Love's gamble played and lost
Age of regret the debt.

Once concealed by life's chains
Now released by nature's bail.

What hostage behind the threshold
Where compromise affords release.

What sound the closing door
What venue the open window.

What knock insures a beggars entrance
What token barters the price.
[Dorothy Hazel Tarr]


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In this offering:

What do you notice about the words?  Their meaning?  Punctuation?  Sentence structure?  Pairing of Sentences?  First word, middle, or last words of Sentences?  What words could be substituted?  What connection words added for clarity?  What meaning of your own would you assign to these words, phrases, sentences?

--------------- OR, Why didn't you just say so! ---------------
 

Today is just a memory that has passed into yesterday.

Thoughts of yesterday blind you to the beauty of today.

Tomorrow is a new beginning as sure as the sun will rise.

Now the lungs expands, as if you had been living with too little air for a long time, where before your breaths were shallow and the pain too great for deep breathing.

What is the secret to giving your trust to another, while other(s) do nothing to earn and secure your trust?

The rest of your life will be nothing but more of the same ... misfortune.

The ones you LOVED the most in this world, have all cut away a piece of your heart, until all is left are tattered ribbons of melancholy and despair.

A bright future so full of a kaleidoscope of hopes lays shattered, lost and washed away with oceans of tears.

It may be better for some to LOVE and LOSE, than never to LOVE at all; but what price must be paid and for what duration.

The years of aching emptiness and pain are camouflaged in life's daily routine, but soon there will be an end to the pain as nature ends its hold to death's surrender.

Where are the words of forgiveness and compromise that release pain's grip on a broken heart?

The silence of the closing door confuses the opening of a window; as the lack of plain speaking confuses the path to understanding.

What will it cost the one who knocks; and what more must the one who knocks surrender?

 [Dorothy Hazel Tarr] 


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WINDOW DREAMs

How sharp the contrast between
the heart's abode now worn with time's despair
and the gaping mawe of fate with
its distant vistas casting new shades of meaning
on another world (another life, another time, another place)
filled with vibrant colors, sweet breaths, soft gentle breezes,
and LOVE's warm embrace.
 [Dorothy Hazel Tarr]