Showing posts with label Lessons. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Lessons. Show all posts

Friday

THE MASK

                           [Photo Source: Google online images]

17 Feb 2012 -- Our Path through Life weaves through a maze of daily challenges, sorrows, disappointments, pain, suffering; and if fate allows, some LOVE and JOY and LAUGHTER.  The remainder of Life's Journey is a mystery – an adventure to unfold moment by moment – in a woven tapestry. 

IS IT wise to let circumstance play its tune -- without spending energy to battle outcomes that may never eventuate (some call this the "Worry - Wart Syndrome")? 

IS IT wise to waste your life changing or organizing events that cannot be altered from your efforts (some call this the "Serenity Prayer")? 

IS IT wise to put on a 'brave face', a 'smiley face', a 'false face', a MASK – in order that one may be accepted by others?

So many questions – so many answers – so many perspectives! 

WHAT MASK will I wear today?  To be accepted!  Loved!  Forgiven!  Penitent!  Remembered!  Cherished!  Employed!  Promoted!  Successful!  Saved!  Released!  Imprisoned!

WHO will see my MASK?
WHO will see that I'm even wearing a MASK?
WHO will see behind my MASK?
WHO will even be looking?
(Dorothy Hazel Tarr)

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SOURCE LINK—


(God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.  ~ "Serenity Prayer", by Reinhold Niebuhr, American theologian and commentator, 1892-1971)


(JUST A NOTE — WHERE does ONE find the COURAGE to move on – beyond what can be seen?.  ~dht)


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We CAN'T control the impressions others form about us, and THE EFFORT TO DO SO only debases our character.  [~Epictetus]

(JUST A NOTE—I do not think that this Greek slave Epictetus used these exact words!  DO YOU?  The words used in this phrase "CAN'T" and "THE EFFORT TO DO SO" seem too colloquial.  Nevertheless, the idea as recorded by Epictetus's pupil Arrian, may cause one to PAUSE and PONDER.  ~dht)

SOURCE LINK—

Epictetus (Greek: Ἐπίκτητος; AD 55 – AD 135) was a Greek sage and Stoic philosopher.  He was born a slave at Hierapolis, Phrygia (present day Pamukkale, Turkey), and lived in Rome until banishment when he went to Nicopolis in northwestern Greece where he lived the rest of his life.  His teachings were noted down and published by his pupil Arrian in his Discourses.  Philosophy, he taught, is a way of life and not just a theoretical discipline.  To Epictetus, all external events are determined by fate, and are thus beyond our control, but we can accept whatever happens calmly and dispassionately.  Individuals, however, are responsible for their own actions, which they can examine and control through rigorous self-discipline.  Suffering arises from trying to control what is uncontrollable, or from neglecting what is within our power.  As part of the universal city that is the universe, human beings have a duty to care for all fellow humans.  The person who followed these precepts would achieve happiness and peace of mind.

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Thursday

(SO) SORRY WALTZ

[Photo Credit:  Google online images – abstract of dance waltz]

(10 NOV 2011 – Have you ever arrived at a crossroads in your Life, in a relationship, in a career, or in a situation – where you have just had it 'up to here"?  Well, I have and wrote this shorty as a tribute to all those who have caused me injury in the past, now, and whoever in future that dare! 

SHALL WE DANCE, you ask? 
I reply, NO THANKS -- I've had enough of your (SO) Sorry Waltz!  
Enjoy!  Comments welcome!  dht)





People say they are so sorry – such empty, hollow words –  for more often than NOT, people just turn right around and do their "sorry business" again and again.  "Repeat Offenders" you might call them – with habits and attitudes that don't change for better as their "sorry" might suggest!

From experience – I've learned to stay out of the Path of their "sorry business" – for if I don't, then I'm just begging to be "sorry'd" or worse.

But then there are those who don't even say "So Sorry" for the hurt they inflict, and the pain from those times is even worse.

I have known some "Sorry Card Carriers" who – after coming down from the high of doing an injury – figuratively whip out their "So Sorry Card"!!

If one looks closely at those cards, one can see the rolled edges of their worn "So Sorry Cards"!!

There is a reason for Ole Sayings -- and this one seems to fit:

Burn me Once    --   Shame on You!
Burn me Twice   --  Shame on Me !

Well, sometimes there are just some lessons in Life that have to be repeated until they are "Learned"!

So I say NOW to those "So Sorry Card Carriers" – I have (finally) learned this lesson! 

Therefore, I am giving you all Notice – starting from this moment of enlightenment – I will NOT "Sign" your "SO SORRY WALTZ DANCE CARD" ANY MORE!  Once was quite enough!

Moreover, I will try to avoid you whenever I hear you have requested the "Band" play your "So Sorry Waltz"!!

[Dorothy Hazel Tarr - 2011] 

NATURE'S SECRETS

                  [Photo Source: Online images National Geographic]


(3 Mar 2011 -- Twice BLESSED are ye who see the heart where time and 'stance masks!  dht)


WHAT sweet poetry of NATURE'S anthem
resides in this inhospitable shell

WHAT mental stream of consciousness
keynotes a monologue of regret

WHAT creature exists on Earth's plane
at the changing mercy of NATURE'S whimsy

WHAT awaits the searcher
at the gong of life's end clock

WHAT unanswered calls of yesterday
go unsaid today and forgotten tomorrow

WHAT new dawn foretells
of fortunes lost on yesterday dreams

WHAT spent passion wounds
there cauterized by heartache

WHAT layers yet to unfold
reveal repeating patterns of yesterday shadows

WHAT sweet NATURE does restore
the balance and chase away demons

WHAT instrument NATURE's brandish
doth level the sharpness of lingering regret

WHAT rich nectar of NATURE does sustain
through moments of despair with assurance all's well

[Dorothy Hazel Tarr]
 

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In this offering: What do you notice about the words? Their meaning? Sentence structure? Pairing of Sentences? First word, middle, or last words of Sentences? What words could be substituted? What connection words added for clarity? What meaning of your own would you assign to these words, phrases, sentences?
 

--------------- OR, Why didn't you just say so! ---------------

WHAT patterns do you see in this PIX?

WHAT mysteries of NATURE come to mind?

WHAT phantoms, demons, shadows await the explorer?

WHAT season is this?

WHAT time of day's cycle?

WHAT abode? Permanent? Temporal?

WHAT are you? Participant? Observer? Advisor? Companion? Uninvolved? Disinterested?

Don't give a 'hoot' or 'whistle'?

JUST an interesting PIX and some jumble of syllables?

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Sunday

DAY's VENUE














 [PHOTO SOURCE: National Geographic online images]
 
(20 Feb 2011, Sunday --  Just a few words to go with this PIX.  It is astonishing how a few short phrases pierce the gray of your world with a single beam of light. dht)

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WHERE goes the day
Down yester night's passage.

How blind today's privilege
Lost fast in yesterday's grasp.

Tomorrow's dream a pledge
Whence nature's precedence assures.

Breast expanse upon deep breath
While shallow essence sums life's interval.

What key holds true for grantor's trust
Whilst surety and worth stand anon.

Time bespoke metered sameness
Whose vowel foretold spoiled fortune.

Ribbons linger as fragments
Where once whole, a heart full.

Shattered spectrum of hopes
Cast away on ocean's tears.

Love's gamble played and lost
Age of regret the debt.

Once concealed by life's chains
Now released by nature's bail.

What hostage behind the threshold
Where compromise affords release.

What sound the closing door
What venue the open window.

What knock insures a beggars entrance
What token barters the price.
[Dorothy Hazel Tarr]


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In this offering:

What do you notice about the words?  Their meaning?  Punctuation?  Sentence structure?  Pairing of Sentences?  First word, middle, or last words of Sentences?  What words could be substituted?  What connection words added for clarity?  What meaning of your own would you assign to these words, phrases, sentences?

--------------- OR, Why didn't you just say so! ---------------
 

Today is just a memory that has passed into yesterday.

Thoughts of yesterday blind you to the beauty of today.

Tomorrow is a new beginning as sure as the sun will rise.

Now the lungs expands, as if you had been living with too little air for a long time, where before your breaths were shallow and the pain too great for deep breathing.

What is the secret to giving your trust to another, while other(s) do nothing to earn and secure your trust?

The rest of your life will be nothing but more of the same ... misfortune.

The ones you LOVED the most in this world, have all cut away a piece of your heart, until all is left are tattered ribbons of melancholy and despair.

A bright future so full of a kaleidoscope of hopes lays shattered, lost and washed away with oceans of tears.

It may be better for some to LOVE and LOSE, than never to LOVE at all; but what price must be paid and for what duration.

The years of aching emptiness and pain are camouflaged in life's daily routine, but soon there will be an end to the pain as nature ends its hold to death's surrender.

Where are the words of forgiveness and compromise that release pain's grip on a broken heart?

The silence of the closing door confuses the opening of a window; as the lack of plain speaking confuses the path to understanding.

What will it cost the one who knocks; and what more must the one who knocks surrender?

 [Dorothy Hazel Tarr] 


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WINDOW DREAMs

How sharp the contrast between
the heart's abode now worn with time's despair
and the gaping mawe of fate with
its distant vistas casting new shades of meaning
on another world (another life, another time, another place)
filled with vibrant colors, sweet breaths, soft gentle breezes,
and LOVE's warm embrace.
 [Dorothy Hazel Tarr]